Tag Archive: Conferences

Roadtrippin’ to Ojai

In February of this year, I was in Chicago for an event, and met with Cynthia for some appetizers and chit chat.  Cyn told me about this event that Lee and her were talking about doing later in the year.  I told her to remind me later in the year about it, and of course I would be there, because it was in California, my home state.

I purchased my ticket, and asked for the time off from work.  Since it was driving distance from my house, I really didn’t focus on planning how I was going to get there.  But luckily, at the beginning of last week, I was able to make plans for the roadtrip with Tiffany, the goddess behind The SITS Girls and Bloggy Boot Camp. As Tiffany would say much later, we could have fun, even if we were in a cardboard box.  Although it was a seemingly short road trip, I haven’t laughed that hard in a long time.  Tiffany and I also learned that; 1.  it is a good thing we don’t live close, 2. we spend too much money together, and 3. we should never ever go to Target together.

We finally arrived at our destination in Ojai, CA, and it was dark.  Seriously, so dark we could barely see anything, and cell phone service was, well there was no cell service.  But we found everyone at a local restaurant.  I think I had the best sausage pizza ever, and I’m totally not a sausage pizza eater.  I blame Tiffany for that.  I was able to initially meet some wonderful women, that I’ve never met before.  In the four plus years that I’ve been blogging, there are people that I’ve wanted to meet, but we literally have just passed/missed each other by minutes at events.  I love that we weren’t rushing around and could just spend some one on one time chatting.

And then I hit bottom.  Seriously, waking up at 5am, working all day, and then traveling, well it makes you tired.  I don’t think that there was enough caffeine in the world to keep me awake that night. Tiffany and I decided that it was time to head back to the MOTEL.  I had to capitalize that because, MOTEL really needs to stick out.

We arrived at our motel, where we instantly noticed that the main office was closed.  You could tell that we were in a small town, because there was a note with my name on the door, which stated that my room keys were in the mailbox, just to the right of the note.  We grabbed the keys, and drove around the corner to find our room.  I had to give some work humor with a phrase like, “you know what defines a motel from a hotel, you can drive your car up to the door of the room.”  I have such odd humor, I’m glad that I surround myself with people that “get me”.  Tiffany may have mentioned something about “pepper spray”.

We headed into our room, which was refreshingly nice.  We organized our stuff, and sat on the fluffy white covered beds.  I did an exclamation of “god bless wifi” or something like that. Because I started checking my e-mail etc., when I sat down.  I think we were exhausted and finally crashed around 11pm, but I still tossed and turned.  I thought I was loosing my mind, but then I realized that every time I moved, a damn motion sensor light came on in the room.  The night was not like a simple night light either, it was bright and lit up the entire room.  Tiffany had a sleeping mask on, and she could still see the light too.  I think the sensor was activated at least 3-4 times during the night.  I may have cursed profanities at the light, a few times.

The Annoying Motion Sensor Light

I added a few “decorative touches” to my photo of that damn motion sensor light.  I may have told Tiffany that it seemed like we in the perfect setting for a horror movie, or where serial killers go to bury their bodies.  I hope that the other people who stayed in the motel had the same experience with the lights, because we could not make this stuff up.

We then headed towards our destination at Calliote Canyon, down a long and winding road.  I would like to thank Tiffany’s OnStar navigation system for getting us there.  I’m quite jealous, and actually researched the system when I got home.  I’m pissed because my Tahoe is a 2007, and it is only available for 2009+ models.

We caught everyone at breakfast time, but we had some small talk while everyone got ready. Since, this post could go on forever, I’m breaking it up into two posts.  I will try and get another post up soon about The Creative Alliance soon. But in the meantime, here are some sneak peek photos below.

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Privacy and Your Blog-Ten Things To Think About

On Saturday, I had my first speaking engagement at Bloggy Boot Camp in San Francisco.  I was going to do this whole elaborate presentation with Powerpoint and all of the bells and whistles.  I decided to do a handout and speak/storytell about the subjects that I outlined.  I stumbled a little here and there, and I may have talked a little too fast at times. But, I think it went over pretty good and I got my points across.  I have had some great feedback and e-mails already, but I wanted to share my outline in a post.

AJM BBC SFPhoto by modchik

PRIVACY and YOUR BLOG
Privacy, tracking visitors, and more about keeping your personal info personal, while still blogging authentically.

TEN TIPS TO REMEMBER WHEN THINKING
OF YOUR PERSONAL PRIVACY

1.   Real Names

  • Do you use your real name? Last name?
  • Do you use your family member’s names?
  • Do you use examples of people you know (IRL) In Real Life on your blog?
  • Do you have permission to use this information?

2.   Location

  • Do you talk about where you live? Actual city, state?
  • Do you talk about vacations, events, before you go to them?
  • Do you use location based web applications?
  • Twitter, Whrrl, Foursquare

3.   Blog Tracking Programs

  • Do you have a stat tracking program installed on your site?
  • Google Analytics, StatCounter, Sitemeter
  • Have you ever tracked an IP address?
  • Do you know how to track and IP address?
  • Previous comments, IP tracking sites

4.   Photographs

  • Do you post pictures of your family? Your kids? Your house? Your neighborhood?
  • Do you watermark your photos?
  • Do you post “birthday party” or event pictures with other kids in them?

5.   Content

  • What is too personal?
  • Search engines and your content?
  • When you hit “publish” it is there forever, sometimes even if you delete

6.   Facebook

  • Do you have privacy settings “set” on your account?
  • How do you select and approve “friends”?

7.   Domain Registrations

  • Do you have your own domain(s)?
  • Are they registered private?
  • Check Who Is?

8.   Cyber Stalkers and Trolls?

  • Do you have a troll/stalker policy?
  • Have you ever had a troll problem?
  • How far would you let it go?

9.   Comments

  • At what point do you close comments?
  • Have you ever closed comments?

10.  Telling People About Your Blog

  • Have you told family, friends, co-workers, playdates?
  • Do you regret people knowing or telling them?
  • Have you had negative experiences because of it?

I may or may not do all of these things.  These are just some good points to think about when you are blogging.  After blogging for three years, my thoughts on some things have changed.  I have loosened up in some areas, and I have totally locked down others.  What ever you choose to do with your privacy and your blog is your opinion, and only yours. Because really, it is your blog.

Bloggy Boot Camp San Francisco

Tomorrow, I will be heading on a road trip from Southern California to Northern California.  I will be carpooling with Ciaran (@momfluential) in a brand new 2011 Lexus LX SUV.  Ciaran says that we will be floating along in a gray cloud of luxury.   I hope we float along smoothly, and make it through Los Angeles before the traffic starts.  Our third partner,  Kelly (@according2kelly), had to cancel last minute as her son had an accident and broke his arm.  Ciaran and I have been thinking about Kelly and little Owen all day.  Kelly didn’t know it, but she was supposed to be our pilot.  She is the planner….

Ciaran and I are headed to Bloggy Boot Camp in San Francisco….we will be joining over a 100 other bloggers for a one-day conference. Ciaran and I will both be speaking at the event, and we can’t wait!

I’ve been working on fabulous presentation the past few days, ok maybe, I’ve been up all day and night working on it.  I even taunt myself how to save my document from iWork09 to a PDF, yay me.

I can’t wait to speak, although I’m sweating bullets.  I just won’t mention that I took public speaking about three times in college.  I went from an F-to a D-to a B, I think?  I have a problem with talking too fast.  I might have to remember to breath amongst my chatting, I mean speaking.  I’ve developed a presentation that works around my fast-talking/non-memorizing issues.  I will be combining a handout with some storytelling.  I’m always good at telling a story.

I guess I should start packing, or sleeping right now…since I’m leaving at 5am, or something like that.  Oh, and my presentation, here’s my topic!

PRIVACY and YOUR BLOG
Privacy, tracking visitors, and more about keeping your personal info personal, while still blogging authentically.

P.S. While writing this post, my blog crashed.  It was a server issue with my host company. They were able to fix it.  I swear, I have a curse.  EVERY time, I go to a major event or conference, my blog goes down, and messes up.

Disclosure: Ciaran got the Lexus LX SUV for a review.  I know, crazy, isn’t it.  We get to do a road trip in style.  How posh is that!